Monday, August 25, 2014

Memories, Moments, and Dinosaurs...


Dear Maria,
Thought I might dash off a quick note as I know I promised to write more often. After nearly two hours outside this morning, Max is sacked out in the foyer. The cooler temperature had him just standing out back for stretches, nose lifted, taking in the fresh air. The kind of morning that is very nearly life-altering, but I won’t say fall-like, not yet.
A recent dust-up at a local high school over a student writing about getting a gun and killing the neighbors’ dinosaurs led a former student of mine to recount writing a gruesome little tale in my class one day. Apparently, rather than call for an administrative strike, I read it out loud on its merits as a narrative. I say apparently very pointedly because I don’t remember the moment at all. The student, yes, but not the assignment, not the particular work, not the moment in the classroom.
Perhaps I would have handled the moment differently ten years later or two years ago. I don’t know. Even if I could remember the event, I might not be able to recapture the tone of that class period—how was I feeling, what kind of mood the class was in, did I have some agenda in mind other than plot construction.
A moment in a life that is a stream of moments—well, so many, so very, very many that are not life-altering. But, a few may be—maybe only one.
The other evening I was being tailgated for about half a mile on the way home from Barnes & Noble. The front half of the sedan’s hood behind me was hidden from my view, but I could clearly see the driver in my rearview mirror applying eye makeup as she looked in her rearview mirror, using her left forearm to steer her car. We were moving along at 45 in a tight pack of vehicles on a divided stretch of a four-lane highway.
I tapped my brakes a few times, but she held her pace and distance. I could only watch ahead for even the slightest need to brake. Had I slammed on the brakes, she would not have been able to stop in time without crashing into me. Later, I wondered whether she was running late because her boss held her at work a bit longer than scheduled. Just a few minutes beyond what she expected. Maybe a child dumped a plate of spaghetti on the floor ten minutes before the babysitter arrived. Or did she build in applying makeup in the car to her travel time to be on time.
At any moment….
Right on cue, Max is nosing my hip and arm. Outside again to enjoy the lovely day. Good call, Max.
Hope all is well in your direction.
Yours, srk

 

 

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